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Stop Bedwetting (Nocturnal Enuresis) Forever!Help your Children to Eliminate Bedwetting and Wake up Dry
The good news is, most children grow out of bedwetting eventually, and usually there's nothing serious going on that makes it inevitable. Although bedwetting doesn't affect a child’s physical health, it can have a considerable psychological consequence for their self-esteem and confidence, at home and in the playground. Older children in particularly find it an embarrassment, and fear their friends or teachers finding out for fear of ridicule or bullying. There are many reasons for a child to wet the bed. Not quite gaining sufficient control over their bladder is one. Late onset bedwetting is often the result of problems at school, or at home, upsets in young relationships, or an inability to keep up in class. The first thing to do is to rule out any medical reason for the bedwetting, such as constipation or infection. If a child has been bedwetting all along, it is likely to be a bladder problem, which may sort itself in time. Late onset bedwetting is another matter, and it would be wise of any parent to take this seriously. Likely causes will be something that is upsetting the child in their normal daytime routine. Getting to the bottom of these things, invariably involves a good honest chat with the young person. 
For that reason, it is probably clear, that getting angry or threatening some kind of punishment, is counterproductive, and will likely delay any recovery to dry nights, and may even have been the original cause.
Because no one dares talk about it in family circles, the subject never comes up in normal conversation, unless (usually) someone is making a joke of it, and so children often feel they can't disclose bedwetting to anyone, even those close to them, for fear of ridicule. The end of bedwetting is a wonderful release for any child, freeing them up to do the things they never thought they'd be able to take part in. Fun things like, sleepovers at friends houses, camping with their mates, school educational visits to places of interest, all become a pleasure to accept with a joyful, 'Yes please, can I go Mum?' Cub camp, scout camp, brownies or guides camp can be enjoyed to the fullest as children start to feel 'normal' again. Children begin to sleep more peacefully, meaning that they are more awake at school and their grades tend to improve.
The psychological effects to a chronic bedwetter have been shown, over many years of research, to be many and varied. Shame, guilt, acting all babyish, feelings of low self-confidence, low self-esteem, perceiving themselves as having reduced competence in school and sports, having to remain secretive, feeling like they are less physically attractive, imagining that they constantly smell of urine, are less socially acceptable, and increased feelings of inadequacy, are all often felt as reasons for the bedwetting as well as the result of the bedwetting. It's difficult to determine which came first. Acting in a way that reinforces these thoughts increases a childs vulnerability, which can result in bullying or taunting. This will make the bedwetting problems worse, as it is seen as related to the reason for the bullying. The result is increased isolation from their peers, putting them at increased risk of bullying and teasing. A vicious circle. Nobody would willingly put their child in a situation like this, would they? I think that as parents, we do it without realizing. We don't see it as a big problem, and treat it as normal, without understanding the impact is is having on our children. But with a little thought, and looking at it from the childs point of view, it's easy to see how something as small as bedwetting can get out of control and escalate to a big problem, without any of us realizing what they are going through. Helping your child overcome their bedwetting problem has got to be one of the most beneficial things you can do to increase their happiness and confidence long term. Order the CD today! This CD sells all over the world and here is what some people have said:
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