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Now available as an MP3 download.
The Cord Cutting Technique for Emotional Pain
A Self Help Technique for Ultimate Relationship Healing
Until we accept that the past makes us who we are today, there is very little that medication, counselling, treatments, surgery or money, can do about how we are feeling right now! But the Cord Cutting Technique is not about changing the past. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE PAST! The past has been and gone; It is part of the fabric of time. BUT, YOU CAN change your reaction to the past, YOU CAN change the way you respond when you think about the past, and YOU CAN change the message that drives you into one form of action or another, or into one state of emotion or another, right now! If this is something you long to deal with: Order your copy today!
I've lost count of the number of people I know whose lives have been screwed up because of their past. Because of not being able to 'LET IT GO'. If you feel in any way that you resonate with that feeling, then NOW is the time to do something about it! Order your copy today!
The Cord Cutting Technique is easy to do, and it works! I'm not going to use the rest of this page, explaining the scientific basis for this idea. I'm not even sure there is any science behind it. But I do know about logic and I do know about emotions, and I do know what it's like to be human with my roots in the past.
So I'm going to ask you to look at this logically.
If you spent your childhood, or part of it, being abused by someone close to you, or you could never do anything right, or you were always treated as second best, how does that make you feel now? Most of us try to keep these memories and the feeling they invoke suppressed. But that's all they are, suppressed. Every now and then, usually when we are in a sticky situation, or when we feel stressed, or angry, or have nothing better to do than think and daydream, they surface and invade our space. They cause us pain, they cause us joy, they can hurt with bitter joy or bitter sorrow. We can't help it, they are part of us, part of who we are, and as such play a major role in everything we do.
Have you spent your whole childhood being told you're not good enough? Or, that you'll never amount to anything? And now, now that you're an adult, you find it hard to speak in public, or address a group of friends or work collegues. In a work situation, or a social situation, do you find it difficult to let yourself go, because of inhibitions that have been nurtured since childhood?
Were you bullied at school, or after? Do you still feel bullied? Do you carry resentment about things that happened back then? And if you come up against a bully, now, in the workplace, do you find yourself intimidated? Or do you find that you lash out inappropriately, because you go into self defence mode. Neither of these reactions are ideal and may even bring you disciplinary problems at work. But it's how we feel, isn't it?
Have you been involved in a tragedy, or an accident that you can't get off your mind? Does it give you nightmares, seeing vivid, full screen, full volume, never ending dreams of some traumatic event that you were involved in?
Many, many ex-soldiers have bought the CD and used it because they have PTSD or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. What causes PTSD? Any traumatic event that is life-threatening or that severely upsets the emotional well-being of an individual or causes intense fear, may cause PTSD. This may include experiencing or witnessing a severe accident or physical injury, receiving a life-threatening medical diagnosis, being the victim of torture or kidnapping, exposure to war combat or the lull of 'downtime' when the mind can play tricks on a soldier with too much time on his/her hands. Other causes of PTSD can include exposure to a natural disaster, or to other disasters, like a plane crash, or a terrorist attack. Becoming a victim of rape, mugging, robbery, or assault, enduring physical, sexual, emotional, or other forms of abuse, as well as involvement in civil conflict. Although it's not always the most traumatic events that cause PTSD, people may develop PTSD in reaction to events that may not qualify as traumatic but can be devastating life events like divorce or unemployment.
Do you sabotage your relationships?
Are you afraid to commit incase you get hurt in the future? This almost always has a root in the past. Is your relationship dominated by being unable to do something kind for another person first, without them doing a kindness to you? This is a relationship based on exchange and not love, and can sometimes come about because of failed relationships in the past, or because love as a child was withheld until you did chores or something to pay for your love.
I hope you can see now how things from our past dictate how we deal with things now when we are adults, how we respond to things, how we react to things.
If you want to make the change, that's the cord that needs breaking!
Think of the past as a link in a chain, anchoring you to the past. Picture breaking that chain, or cutting the cord that links you to the past, and that gives you a visualization of how The Cord Cutting Technique works.
How can your CD help me?
You just pick your issues and deal with them in private! I'm sure that millions of people suffer now because of problems in the past that they can't deal with. In fact, I know it! But, we Brits find it really difficult to sit down with a counsellor or quack and pour out our souls. We just don't do Oprah or Jerry in this country do we? We like to keep this kind of thing to ourselves. There is a place for communicating our troubles with others, not necessarily on prime time TV, but in the sanctuary of a counsellor's office or surgery. But even that has it's limitations.
Here's what you can do. YOU pick your situations, relationships, emotions, fears, memories, events, whatever it is. You write them down. You play the CD and follow the instructions. Then go back to your life and see what happens. That's it! I promise you, it's as simple as that!
This CD sells all over the world and here is what some people have said:
How to Order Your CD or MP3 by Royal Mail
Many people still prefer to use the Post and so I am happy to receive a UK cheque (payable to "Philip Chave")
Send it to: Mr P Chave, The Haven Healing Centre, Draycott Rd, Cheddar, Somerset BS27 3RU
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For more information about The Cord Cutting Technique, please visit: www.cordcuttingtechnique.com
Note 1: Please Apply Caution: THIS CD CONTAINS A DEEPLY RELAXING MEDITATION ROUTINE. PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS WHILST DRIVING OR AT ANY OTHER TIME WHEN YOU NEED TO BE ALERT, OR PAYING ATTENTION, OR OTHERWISE OUTWARDLY FOCUSED. THANK YOU. - Phil
Note 2: I am karmically convinced of the safety of this product, but as I cannot directly influence how you use the CD, I can assume no liability whatsoever for damages of any kind that occur to you or anyone else who uses this product or applies the healing technique. The method of Healing presented here and on the CD is not intended as a substitute for professional health care. - Phil
Note 3: Please be aware that this CD does not take the place of conventional medicine. Always consult a GP for an acute or infectious condition, and problems of an urgent nature. Continue with your prescribed medication. Self healing is a complementary therapy that works effectively alongside orthodox/conventional healthcare, thus expanding your treatment options.
Note 4: Copyright Notice. All material produced by The Haven Healing Centre and the Distant Healer Home Therapist Series is protected by copyright law. You may make one backup copy of your CD or MP3 for your own personal use. You may not otherwise reproduce, distribute, publicly perform, publicly display, or create derivative works of this material, unless authorized by The Haven Healing Centre.
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