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Help from Stuttering and StammeringRapid, effective treatment for stutter and stammer - come NOW!Does stuttering make you feel stressed? Many people who stutter, children or adults, want to get a conversation over as quickly as possible, and stutter even more because of placing themselves under pressure to perform.
"Having a stutter causes me to have low self-esteem and low self-confidence". You know, I hear this all the time. It's generally not the stutter that is the problem. Well it is a problem, but it's more to do with what stuttering gives a person. This can be very painful emotionally. Stutterers hate their stutter. Sitting at the back of a room or class, avoiding all the best bits, feeling like a misfit, holding erratic conversations, suffering other peoples impatience or have them 'fill in the blanks', losing the good jobs at interviews, and avoiding meeting new people because of the embarrassment of an uncontrollable stammer. Stuttering is emotionally painful, frustrating and often misunderstood. Approximately 1% of the adult population (that is 3 million Americans and 700k Brits), are afflicted with stuttering, with more than 3 times as many males being affected by the condition as females. Does stuttering affect children more than adults? • Stuttering affects dating • Stammering can cost you that job interview • Stuttering can give other people (including teachers) the idea that you are not very intelligent • The frustration can be a mammoth issue, because you know how to say the word • You can spend a long time beating yourself up because socialising becomes impossible • The 3 main words that stutterers learn are, frustration, confidence (lack of) and depression • Many stammerers dread the phone ringing, and dread answering it even more • It's normal to think people judge you when they hear you stutter • True or False for you? The harder you work at removing the stutter, the worse it gets I think we can safely conclude that stammerers, whether children or adults are equally affected. Stuttering has nothing to do with speech! But I do think it has everything to do with the way we present ourselves. You think yourself into a stammer. When you prepare the word in your mind, you don't stammer, so you? It only affects the delivery. So, a stammer is introduced at the idea, or moment of performing the word. The anticipation of performing the sentence becomes part of the stammering behaviour. Is there a relationship between stuttering or stammering and anxiety? Or, do I stutter because I am anxious? For many years this was thought to be true, and many therapists still feel stammering is caused by anxiety of one form or another. It is true, that some people who stutter or stammer were once anxious, but it is also true that anxious people do not always develop a stammer. I'm more inclined to think that stammerers develop anxiety because of the difficulties they face during everyday communication, and over time, the reactions of other people, and the social consequences of an impatient audience. It's not always possible to just walk away, is it? Do you treat everyone that comes with the same methods and techniques? No, stammering and stuttering is not one single condition. Your experience, reason and reaction to stammering will be different to the next person. But, stammering does share some common features among most sufferers. Educational or social responses and consequences will be dependant on age, and may have an impact on your schooling or work prospects. You wouldn't believe how many stutterers are teachers, and you soon begin to wonder if there is something about that profession that attracts stutterers or creates them. One think is certain, every stutterer is unique and responds to different types of therapy and interventions. So no, everyone is seen as an individual and treated as such. This cd is for the many thousands of adults, and teenagers, and children who stammer and stutter. Nobody knows what causes stammering or stuttering. The once and for all definitive cause of stammering is still unknown, even if there is one. Many theories have been suggested, and dismissed over the years, maybe because we don't all fit into neat little categories and check boxes. I think that the idea of multiple causes of stammering is more likely. Why? Because it seems to be one of a number of coping strategies for the body which in this instance manifests as a stammer. Quite often in practice, it becomes very clear what was potentially the cause of a stammer in this patient, or that person. It also becomes clear what circumstances trigger an increase in the stammer. But maybe the point is not to understand where a stammer originates, though I accept that this is often a very good starting point for any therapy, but perhaps the best way forward is to treat the stammer symptomatically. This is where I came from with my approach to stammering, and for the most part it has been very successful. I'm not offering a cure, and also I'm not a speech therapist. What I want to offer you is the ability to effect a CONTROL over your stammer using the power of your mind. Something you do yourself, in your own time, at your own pace, and in your own way. Are you one of the stammerers who feels they have tried everything else and wants to do their own thing; be their own therapist? The first thing to do is make the absolute, wholehearted decision to change the way you talk. No ifs, no buts. Every thought, every moment, every cell and bone in your body must want to change. Its no holds barred in the effort to conquer your stammer. Self doubt, anxiety, anger, a sense of hopelessness and negative thinking are the deadliest enemy of successful stammering self-therapy. So have the courage to be positive and enthusiastic in your endeavours, and prove to yourself just how effective self-therapy can be. This CD set is not being promoted as a miracle cure for stammering, indeed some of the people I have tried this system on have taken as long as 20 weeks to get a result. But it is set out in a way that is a logical sequence of self help over time, easy to do, and empowering to you as the stammerer. Never try to force change; this will lead to stress and anxiety. Take your time, build on your strengths and you will make it in the end. You will recall how, for any stammerer, anxiety is your biggest enemy. So use this CD and learn to gain control over your stammer induced anxiety first, and then gain control over your stammer. Most stammerers and stutterers have periods of fluency, which proves there is a 'cause' somewhere, even if you don't know what it is. In fact, because you may be sometimes 'distracted' away from stammering, it is likely/possible something to do with how you 'feel' at the time. Most experts can't agree on a definite cause, and the same experts also agree there is no infallible cure, despite years of research. So essentially that means the best therapy is going to be self-therapy. Actually, the truth is: You can already talk without stammering. You do it now, you've always done it, and you always will! Just think. You can probably think of a time when you talked to yourself without stammering. You don't stammer when you talk in your mind, and you probably don't stammer in your dreams, unless you are in a scary, or anxious state, or having a nightmare. Many stammerers don't stammer when they sing, shout, swear loudly or when talking during laughter. The CD audio is very much in tune with this idea; the fact that you don't stammer or stutter in these other areas of your life, and so the idea of bringing this ability and confidence into the real world is paramount to making a mental shift that says, 'I'm not a stutterer, I'm a person who sometimes stutters'. It helps us to see ourselves in a new light, a positive light, one in which we are able to create change and have the resources to accomplish our goals and ambitions. Our ability to convincingly do this in many other areas of our lives tells us that stammering therapy MUST, by definition, be a do-it-yourself therapy. Because if, for the most part, you've done this to yourself, by building up coping strategies, behaviours and mannerisms that have advanced or created the stammer, then it is reasonable to suppose, whichever method of treatment/therapy you choose, your stammer recovery will also be up to you. It should be further recognized that stammerers are different in very many ways. Not only in the conditions under which they stammer, but in the manner of their stammer, and so not every practical method of recovery will, or can, be effective. However, the common thread is usually a deep desire to lose their stammer, and since we have established that anxiety is a mighty, if not THE most important contributor to a stammer, it makes sense to address this part of your stammer first. The CD here has been designed with that exact purpose, so give it a try today. You can order your CD below, in your own currency, or one close to yours, and the price shown, includes delivery worldwide. I look forward to receiving your order and processing it personally. Phil FACT: It is estimated that around 1% of the worldwide population stutter and stammer. In the United States, that's over 3 million Americans who stutter, and over 600,000 stammerers in the United Kingdom. If you have a family member in that number, why not help them by ordering a CD on their behalf? It could be the best gift you ever send!
How to pay for your CD by Royal Mail Many people still prefer to use the post and so I am happy to receive a UK cheque (payable to "Philip Chave"). Please send it to: The Haven Healing Centre, Draycott Rd, Cheddar, Somerset, BS27 3RU. Don't forget to include your return address, telephone, email address, and the CD you are ordering. Expect a short delay while your cheque clears. Thank You. For optimum results please try to listen to your hypnosis CD everyday for a minimum of 30 days, and the other strategies CD (coming soon) when you need to top up your strategies. Try to be as consistent as possible in order that you might achieve your goals. FACT: It is estimated that around 1% of the worldwide population stutter and stammer. In the United States, that's over 3 million Americans who stutter, and over 600,000 stammerers in the United Kingdom. If you have a family member in that number, why not help them by ordering a CD on their behalf? It could be the best gift you ever send! Cautionary Note: Please don't play or listen to your hypnosis CD while you are driving or operating machinery. The strategies CD is not a hypnosis product. Both are clearly marked for correct ID, so please read the label before making an appropriate decision about when and where to listen in. If you are in any doubt, please email me first. Medical Disclaimer: Please remember, Distant Healer or The Haven Healing Centre products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent diseases or medical conditions. They are for educational purposes only. Please consult your GP, consultant or medical practitioner for any medical advice. Please share this page with your friends. Thank you. For more information about this Stuttering and Stammering Technique, please visit: www.stammerfree.co.uk Note 1: Please Apply Caution: THIS CD CONTAINS A DEEPLY RELAXING MEDITATION ROUTINE. PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS WHILST DRIVING OR AT ANY OTHER TIME WHEN YOU NEED TO BE ALERT, OR PAYING ATTENTION, OR OTHERWISE OUTWARDLY FOCUSED. THANK YOU. - Phil Note 2: I am karmically convinced of the safety of this product, but as I cannot directly influence how you use the CD, I can assume no liability whatsoever for damages of any kind that occur to you or anyone else who uses this product or applies the healing technique. The method of Healing presented here and on the CD is not intended as a substitute for professional health care. - Phil Note 3: Please be aware that this CD does not take the place of conventional medicine. Always consult a GP for an acute or infectious condition, and problems of an urgent nature. Continue with your prescribed medication. Self healing is a complementary therapy that works effectively alongside orthodox/conventional healthcare, thus expanding your treatment options. Note 4: Copyright Notice. All material produced by The Haven Healing Centre and the Distant Healer Home Therapist Series is protected by copyright law. You may make one backup copy of your CD or MP3 for your own personal use. You may not otherwise reproduce, distribute, publicly perform, publicly display, or create derivative works of this material, unless authorized by The Haven Healing Centre. It's a small investment in yourself, but could be a life-changing experience you will cherish forever. | |||||||
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